~quoted from Jianfu webby~
it's so true, that whenever you're crumbling, the whole world just tells you to be strong. the advice just flows out so easily that sometimes i wonder if they even understand anything about what's going on. who doesn't want to be strong? who wants to get hurt all the time by the one he/she loves the most? they want you to be strong, they tell you to be strong, but it never crosses their mind that you want to be strong too. but no matter how hard you try to stand up, you can't. they don't realise that although you appear so strong all the time, you are actually so fragile. that although you always try to be tough, you do need a shoulder to cry on.
i think it is excellently written in a simplified manner, indeed no one would understand the pain as much as the one thats suffering from the pain, but the simple gesture unnoticingly became a positive motivation to move on perhaps. although u might seem to be tough all the time, u might be putting up an act. u might be very sad, but no one will understand. it is even hurt more when the ones you love dont understand it too
